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Where do you keep your ketchup?

            Jeff Hyson

            Jeff Hyson

 

I recently moved into a new office, complete with tiled floor, bare windows, bare walls, and hard furnishings.  Until I get a chance to "soften it up" with window shades and maybe an area rug, along with all of the equipment to do my job, the room is pretty stark.  The most annoying feature of the room is the crisp echo of any sounds, especially the sound of my fingers typing away on my keyboard.  It is very much an echo chamber.  Sounds stay inside and bounce around, while outside noises stay dull and muffled.  For my sanity, sometimes I need to get out of the echo chamber.

In our lives, we are often stuck in the echo chamber.  We have an opinion, a viewpoint, a way of doing things that we hold tightly to, and the people around us, the content we follow on Facebook, the information we surround ourselves with, echoes what we already think.  This constant reinforcement, or echo, of our already held opinions serves to strengthen them, while diminishing opposing voices.  While it might keep us comfortable, there are some major concerns with staying within our own echo chamber.

First, your echo chamber reinforces the belief that everyone feels the same way about an issue that you do.  I happen to not like a certain politician/billionaire/businessman/reality TV star very much, and everyone I tend to surround myself with, both on social media and in real life, feels the same.  The news articles that show up on my Twitter and Facebook feeds are decidedly anti-this-guy.  But as his popularity skyrockets, I've been left wondering how he can be so popular if nobody likes him?!?  Obviously, my echo chamber had reinforced my own opinions, with little ability to see beyond its barriers.  I'm not saying alternative voices would change my opinion, but they might help be see the political landscape more accurately.

Here's another example.  Where do you keep your ketchup?  If you are like most Americans, you keep it in the refrigerator.  That's the "correct" place to keep it.  However, if you are from the South, or most of Europe, you keep it in the cupboard or pantry.  Restaurants don't keep it in the refrigerator either.  Why does it matter?  Our placement of ketchup actually determines how we think about ketchup.  For fridge people, when you run out of ketchup, what do think of as a substitute?  Mayo or mustard might come to mind.  For pantry people, malt vinegar or spices might be the go-to.  Being stuck in one constantly-reinforced mindset limits our ability to see other points of view.  When we believe our opinions are the only valid opinions, we fail to see value in other perspectives.

I have been making an effort to escape my echo chamber, and I don't mean my new office.  If I want to be able to see and think about things from different angles, I cannot simply live in a world where every opinion I encounter reinforces my own.  Jesus wasn't a middle-class white American living in New Jersey.  He was a Jewish carpenter's son living in the Middle-East.  I would be willing to bet that he didn't keep his ketchup in the fridge. 

 

Jeff Hyson

START AFRESH!

Start Afresh!

If you have been following our blogs, you know the value of reading the personal story line that is often found in most of the blogs. As one of the pastors at our church community, I appreciate the efforts and thoughtfulness each blog contributor has brought to the table on a regular basis. It is our intention to continue fostering this kind of written interaction that encourages and illustrates so often the life according to the Gospel of Jesus Christ. This life is not tidy, predictable, safe or painless. But it is a life that when looked on through certain lenses, say for instance the persons and promises of the Gospel, make life a hopeful journey, a journey that is worth living by faith and not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7). 

So we are re-launching the two existing blogs (The Every Day Gospel and the Counseling one) by merging the two. The blogs will be musings of people just like you, who invite you into their personal stories, share what they learn from life experiences and reflect on human, spiritual and social issues, all seen through the lens of the Gospel. The aim of this blog is to encourage you to discover, follow & reveal Jesus.

I invite you to journey, on a weekly basis, with our blog contributors and allow this written venue to encourage your journey of faith! And from time to time, let us know if something has encouraged your life.

Sincerely,

Pastor Diego Cuartas

Facing Our Failures

It is not unusual to being a New Year making assessments of what we've done or who we are. The result can often be unbalanced--lacking the positive things--or purely negative. When this happens our conclusions often lead us to places where our mistakes assures us that we are failures. I want to introduce this week a blog from Ed Welch that may help us "deconstruct" failure.  Click here  to read the blog. May God give us grace to see ourselves correctly!

Providing For Me In My Pain

I get migraines several times a week.

I've tried lots of different things to try to help them. Currently I'm considering taking a preventative medicine. But as I've tried lots of different ways to help, so far they just keep coming.

Sometimes it's pretty stressful. I take a prescribed medication to stop the migraine once it starts, but my insurance only covers 9 pills every 28 days. And there are many days that I'm vacillating back and forth: do I take a pill? Again? Or do I save it so that I'll have enough later in the month? Because I usually do end up needing about 9 pills a month, give or take a few.

And I'm usually caught up in this mental battle, wondering if I can make it through without needing the medication, wondering if I'll have what I need when the next migraine hits...or the next or the next.

But you know what I realized a few months ago? I looked at my little container of migraine pills...and I noticed that when I refill my prescription, I always have a few left over. I always have just enough. Throughout the month, I always feel like I won't have enough or I might run out. But when it comes down to it, I might have 3 left over, or I might just have 1. But I've never NOT had enough.

I'm not saying that I won't ever run out of migraine pills. But I am saying that I haven't.

And yet I still worry every month.

And it makes me wonder...how many other areas of my life am I always taken care of, always provided for, always carried through, but I keep on worrying? 

When I'm in pain, I tend to think, "Oh no! PAIN! I need to control! I need to make it go away! I need to worry and strive to make sure I am provided for, to make sure I have enough!" But in my pain, Jesus is always taking care of me. He is a good, good Father. He is in control of every aspect of my pain, of my life. He's in control of the pain now, and He's also in control of how I'll be shaped and formed through it. He's in control of what I need and how I'll get it. He's just in control. Whether I perceive it or not.

And right there, in the middle of the pain, instead of worrying, I can force myself to take a deep breath, and I can remind myself that God is there, in the middle of it. And He's providing all that I need. I have enough. 

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